Self-Love Series: 5 Ways to Treat Yourself This Valentines (+All New Blog Look!)

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Have you noticed a change!? If you’re not a recent follower then you’re proobably aware that Bookish Wanderer just got a majorly new look! I was lucky enough to find and work with an amazing and creative designer, Mina (a.k.a Underline Designs) and she created a theme that fit exactly what I’ve always imagined my little corner of the internet looking like! I also have a brand new portfolio page to showcase my pieces of writing that I’ve been working so hard on. I’ve been itching to make this change for a while now and Mina did a beautiful job!! If you’re looking for a great graphic designer to work with, check her out!

Soo Valentines is almoost here but since I don’t post on Wednesdays, I wanted to make my second to last edition of the Self-Love Series a little cupid themed! :p My boyfriend and I are celebrating tomorrow (13th) since we both work on Valentines but the way I’ve always felt about this holiday is that that you should be treating yourself too (if not better!!) than your significant other. It’s a day about love – sure – but there’s room for self-love in there too!

So without further ado, brew yourself something toasty (or mix yourself a drink if it’s Summer where you are?) and get into pjs because I’m about to share 5 ways I love to treat yourself on Valentines!

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Self-Love Series: 5 Ways to Treat Yourself This Valentines

Meditate (Get Grounded)

This might sound like a weird first step but I do think clearing your mind is an important step if you’re going to relax all day. While I’ve never been much into flat out meditating, I’ve really been into yoga and tarot cards lately and that’s been my kind of way to get grounded. Working out or even going for run are also great ways to connect with your body and clear your mind but I have to say yoga (especially Savasna at the end,) really helps me set my intentions for the day and start on a positive note. My favorite yoga instructor to follow is Yoga By Candace! As for tarot cards, I got mine as a birthday present from Urban Outfitters and it’s been a nice way to start my day, especially when somethings been bothering me.

Blast Your Favorite Music

What’s the best thing about staying home alone? Blasting your music obnoxiously loud obviously. I don’t think you ever get old enough for that. The right music can put anyone in a good mood and it’s pretty much essential to any treat-yourself-day. Why? Because good music makes us smile, sing at the top of our lungs and dance, that’s why.

Grab Your Favorite Snacks & Binge Movies/Tv Shows!

Who says you need a date to get those Hershey kisses and conversation hearts? No one – ever. So march to your walmart or target, load up on all your favorite snacks and get back in bed with your favorite show or movie playing. Whether you’re going classic and playing some rom-coms or just catching up on something you like. I’m currently ripping through Heroes! I love Hayden Pannettiere and use to watch the show but it dropped off my radar around season 3 – this time I intend to finish it! What shows are you currently loving?

Make Something Tasty

We all have those cravings for our favorite dish but since we’re usually busy running, by the time we get home, were so tired that were happy with our cup of noodles. But since it’s your day, take the time to make your favorite plate, whether it’s savory or sweet. Make something you’ve been meaning to try or something you love and never have the time to make. I recently found this ultra sweet Harry Potter Butterbeer themed cake on Pinterest annd I am determined to make it.

Bring The Spa to You!

Spa’s are great and all but they’re also an arm and a leg. As much as I adore Lush and facials, there’s something that makes me feel great about knowing I’m doing something great for my skin and not spending a dime doing it. There are literally thousands of recipes online for face masks that are hydrating, acne fighting or even act as DIY scrubs and the thing I’ve always loved about those recipes is that they’re almost always made with ingredients you already have. After you’ve got your DIY mask on, why not light a couple candles and draw a bath? You’ve got time! Because today is all about you, remember!?

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These are just a few ways you can spend Valentines but the final point being – take time on this holiday to think about what makes you happy and just do it! We really don’t allow ourselves the time we need to get in touch with our passions/hobbies or the little things that make us smile because we’re always so busy running around. So make a promise to change that and try doing something you love this Valentines! 🙂

Let me know what your plans are this Valentines in the comments down below! Don’t forget to subscribe if you want to be notified of new posts with that said, I’ll see you Friday!!

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Comments

littlesealittleme says

February 13, 2018 at 1:59 am

Awwww I loved this soo muchhhh

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- Melissa Gibbs says
  
  February 13, 2018 at 8:49 am
  
  Thank youu!! 🙂
  
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lifeofangela says

February 13, 2018 at 1:07 pm

These are all great ideas Mel! Both Rory and I work all day, but we’re planning on doing some baking together after work 😀

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- Melissa Gibbs says
  
  February 13, 2018 at 2:35 pm
  
  Thanks! Aww that is so cute!
  
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Self-Love Series: 5 Ways to Treat Yourself This Valentines (+All New Blog Look!)

. . .

Self-Love Series: 5 Ways to Treat Yourself This Valentines

Meditate (Get Grounded)

Blast Your Favorite Music

Grab Your Favorite Snacks & Binge Movies/Tv Shows!

Make Something Tasty

Bring The Spa to You!